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Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Be a TRUE friend

Every now and then, wherever I go, I can easily make friends with strangers. Although at the back of my mind, I always remember not to be too friendly and to choose friends with caution. Making friends is very easy like a usual part of me. I have a gift to discern who are true and who are not, but it doesn't matter sometimes, even if I know that they can't be a good influence for me, I would still love to be their friend if I know that somehow I can be of good influence to them. I should say that one of the greatest gift that I have and are been grateful of is the opportunity to met lots of true friends wherever I go.

Winning a friend can't be accomplished overnight or just a mere acquaintances but through the test of time. A true friend will come running for you if you're need help, always listen, never compromise, and treat you as part of her family and cares deeply for you and always extend a helping hand. But if you think you need a true friend to be there for you, be one or you will never be worthy for the blessing that comes along with your friendship, or your heart will harbor bad thought against others, envy, and contempt.

Life's journey will be easier if we share it with friends, grow and learn with them. Treasure the true one that comes along, and cherish the memories that had touched your life. Share love, laughters and live long!!!

6 comments:

anney said...

Friends are like treasures! We should value the friendship and be true to one other. I'm blessed to have true friends who I have known for such a long time that even though we don't see each other that much, we still keep in touch through texting, phone calls or chatting.

bluedreamer27 said...

that is much important
if youre true with your friend they will bring back the courtesy
have a great day white shadow

bluedreamer27 said...

happy mothersday my friend

Unknown said...

Luke 10:36-37 (NIV) "Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?" The expert in the law replied, "The one who had mercy on him." Jesus told him, "Go and do likewise."

I like the advice you give… “But if you think you need a true friend to be there for you, be one”, it puts it all on the table. Friendship requires an act of giving and then giving from the heart with love. To enter into it from any other angle destroys the chance for true friendship to exist. A real friend will seek that which they can give. As you have said it may just be the opportunity to be a good influence and nothing more. That alone is worth adding to the world.

Blessings,
Matt.

bluedreamer27 said...

i got an award for you
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have a great day and happy blogging

Clarissa said...

I treasure my friends in my childhood up to now--I'm glad I can still get connected to them even for sometimes.^_^